Okay... So I
don't usually care enough to even say anything about these types of situations... however since its apparently, such a BIG DEAL tonight... So I'll air it out...
I'll start by saying that when all is said and done, you only know 1/4 the story... Both
Rihanna and Chris had
ingenuine parts of their "statements." They are entertainers: The girl may "resent" him but she loves him. If there weren't so many people looking on, her resentment and "inner wounds" would have been swept under the carpet by Moans, Groans and "
Tekk it baby!" "Yes!" and "Make love to me"... She
wasn't ready to give him up! And parts of her still
isn't! She's an
Aquariun/
Pisces cusp young woman who can be very graceful however has very passionate and masculine tendencies.
Don't misunderstand me, In no way shape or form am I saying that what Chris did is excusable, however my point is, even though she's "an icon", and she should be "setting an example" and blah blah blah... She's FREAKING human!!! THEY BOTH ARE!
If it weren't "
Rihanna" no one would make such a big deal out of it... What hurts her most about the situation is not that she went THROUGH it, but the fact that she went through it PUBLICLY! If it
weren't something that she {Breaking it down: (**1.From a west Indian woman's point of view:) could handle or **2.)} was used to, she would NOT have thought to go back...
Chris hitting her that way was totally inexcusable, unacceptable, and he will face the consequences, however if
you'd learned all your life lessons you
wouldn't still be alive... Therefore who the hell are we to pass judgements? Answer: It's not your place or mine! Leave it to the most high! The man is dealing with his demons already! Not that anyone should feel sorry for him. But No one should feel sorry for neither of them. Its the paths they chose. Also, none of us were there... Who the hell knows what transpired that night?
On a metaphysical level, when it all went down, so many people fed so much energy into scrutinizing and passing judgement on their lives!
Idolizing her (which by the way: "Exodus 34:17 You shall not make cast idols") She cant live and learn like other people do... she's has to do and say "the right things..." Her life has become the the center of so much energy.... Sidebar: I wish people would exert the same amount of energy they spend on all this drama and
bull crap - on world peace, or loving themselves, or just something POSITIVE! The EARTH would shake!
People are making comments about the fact that she's come here to the USA "stirring up madness," "causing trouble" and that she needs to "Go Home" and all that.
To that I say: Get that hate out of your heart!
How is she causing trouble by living her life? A life given to her by God, by whom alone she an CHRIS should ever be judged by? No offense to anyone, But whoever agrees with the fact that she's "causing trouble in the USA, and needs to go home" needs to humble themselves... We're all only dirt that God breathed divinity into! We lose more and more of ourselves by forgetting that just because you live on it, this earth does not belong to us... We are ALL made from it! Further more, you were interested enough to read this blog about
Rihanna, so she's obviously done enough positive to become someone you're reading about investing your thoughts in. Which proves that she's contributed a lot to music and in turn has to now sacrifice "normal" her life for that of an "idol."
As for her whole "F Love" concept... That
wasn't a very responsible statement to make. But again, she is HUMAN, and going through it. People throw that word around so freely, its almost as though they
don't understand... "Love"
doesn't beat you to a pulp. Its not untrue, painful,
obsessive, unhealthy or abusive.
So-
don't be brainwashed... I
wouldn't say that they
don't have love for
each other! Its obvious that it was deeper than the materialistic, flashy lifestyles they lived. However Sex & Lust are powerful things! Especially between two powerful people! They opened up an energy warp with their intimacy! And the fact that so many people invest their energy in focusing on their relationship, only adds to their connection to one another! This is deeper than
Rihanna and Chris, people just refuse to look past the shallow shit!..
Rihanna and Chris are both of West Indian decent.
Rihanna was born and raised in the Barbados where domestic violence was the LEAST of
every one's problems. People in the Islands are SURVIVORS beyond all else... They know how to survive, and really appreciate the smaller things in life... You look in
Rihanna's face and as beautiful a woman as she may be you can still see the tough little island girl who had to walk miles to and from school, and unless she had a helper - had to hand wash clothes with family elders using cobalt soap and hang it up in the sun,
So to many of the misguided and insecure women, a man could be considered a necessity as opposed to a luxury... Most women not only of West Indian decent, but generally speaking are
subconsciously taught that loving our men means putting them before everything - yourself included, getting lost in them, and taking care of them, despite the fact that it could mean neglecting ourselves. This way of thinking is that of many "old school," traditional women. So when it someone like
Rihanna who probably
didn't have a want or need in the world except to be "loved" and "accepted" for themselves - To have that ONE person that you could consider "a sweet escape" - they became too dependent on one another and it became unhealthy.. I bet Rihanna's current favorite song of her own is "Rehab"... because she def has to check in!
Historically speaking, before women of
African descent were appreciated for the beauty that is us.. Slave owners raped and beat us and sent us home, as battered women, to our men who were then to love a "broken" woman. The men might have loved their women, but how could we really expect them not to be angry? They couldnt protect their wives the way, as a man, they naturally wanted to protect their women. Love and Rage filled their hearts and resulted in the abuse. This isnt an excuse, however just so you understand both sides of the coin.
There are men out there who have been abused as well. While men are naturally physically stronger than we are. We are more powerful than they are. (Thats a statement that only a few people will understand.) Women were created from the rib cage of a man. God determined to make an help meet for Adam (Genesis 2:18) He needed a companion to keep him from being “alone.” He needed a comforter to “help” him in his day to day life. & He needed a complement to round out his character that was “meet for him.” Meet means ready, prepared, just right (see 2Timothy 2:21 where we are to be “meet for the master’s use”). There in we as women have the power to take advantage of men, by playing on their emotional insecurities.
While some of us women, are built like stallions and have probably utilized today's resources to turn ourself into Warrior queens;
As a woman, experiencing physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional abused can cause you to feel lost and confused. Then making incorrect decisions, or not learning your lessons can cause you to develop insecurities causing you to sometime feel like lesser of a woman. When you feel that way its almost exude vibrations that either attract or repel certain things. When you are in an unstable situation, with someone who is connected to you, you can affect your surroundings by attracting negative outcomes, by being confrontational, and overbearing and sometimes inappropriate at times - and not to say that we
shouldn't express ourselves, however part of being a woman is being graceful enough to using our better judgment and practicing self control. No one can tell me that Chris is crazy enough to just wanna beat her THAT bad without a build up. Before the
argument got that bad SOMEONE should have been an adult and either shut up... ignored the other... or just plain walked away...
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